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Wilson P. Aiken

Wilson P. Aiken, 80, of South Windsor, formerly of Lebanon, husband of the late Margaret (Ramsay) Aiken, died Saturday May 25, 2002 at his daughter's home in South Windsor. He was born March 19, 1922 in North Troy, VT and had lived in Lebanon since 1961. He was a U.S. Army veteran of World War II and active in the American Legion in Lebanon. Mr. Aiken was a member and former chief of the Lebanon Volunteer Fire Department and was employed at Agway in Franklin for many years prior to his retirement. He is survived by a daughter and son-in-law, Linda and Bob Miller of South Windsor, a son, Robert Aiken of Delray, Florida, 6 grandchildren, 1 great grandchild and several nieces and nephews. His family will receive friends at the Potter Funeral Home, 456 Jackson St. (Rte. 195) Willimantic on Tuesday from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. Funeral services will be held Wednesday at the funeral home at 11:00 a.m. Burial will follow in the New Lebanon Cemetery. Those who wish may make memorial contributions to the Lebanon Volunteer Fire Dept. or the American Legion, Lebanon, CT 06249.

[With permission of Potter Funeral Home - submitted by Nancy Washell]


Dimitri Andrews 1922 - 2003

Dimitri Andrews Jr., 81, of Lebanon, husband of the late Lillian (Hines) Andrews, died Saturday November 22, 2003 at the Windham Hospital. He was born April 7, 1922 in Lebanon, the son of Dimitri and Anna (Swilka) Andrews Sr. and was a lifelong resident of Lebanon. He was a U.S. Army veteran of World War II. Mr. Andrews owned and operated a sawmill in Lebanon and was the first man permitted to log in the Yale Forrest. He is survived by 4 children, Charles Andrews of Columbia, Andrew Andrews and his wife Sherry of Lebanon, Violet Andrews of Vernon, Robert Andrews and his wife Rosemary of Lebanon, 2 brothers, John Andrews of Lebanon, Steve Andrews of Willimantic, 2 sisters, Stella Desrosiers of Willimantic, Lorraine Andrews of Lebanon, 2 stepsisters, Anna Cota of Elmira, NY, Katherine Lesi of Cromwell, 5 grandchildren, A.J., Kate, Ethan, Bobbi-Jo and Timothy Andrews, many nieces and nephews. He was also predeceased by a daughter, Barbara Andrews. His family will receive friends at the Potter Funeral Home, 456 Jackson St., Rte. 195, Willimantic on Tuesday from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. Graveside services with military honors will be held Wednesday at 10:00 a.m. in the New Lebanon Cemetery, Waterman Rd. Lebanon. Those who wish may make memorial contributions to the Lebanon Historical Society Museum, 859 Trumbull Highway, Lebanon, CT 06249 or the Veterans Hospital, 555 Willard Ave., Newington, CT 06111.

[With permission of Potter Funeral Home - submitted by Nancy Washell]


Phyllis (Wilcox) Aspinall
June 12, 1917 - October 26, 2004


Lebanon: Phyllis Louise (Wilcox) Aspinall, widow of Gurdon A. Aspinall, of Trumbull Highway, passed away on Tues. Oct. 26, 2004 at Haven Health in Willimantic. Phyllis was born in Brighton, Mass. on June 12, 1917 and was the only child of the late Frederick and Hester Mary (Baker) Wilcox. She was a graduate of North Weymouth High School and Framingham State Teacher's College. Her teaching career began at Lyman Memorial High School in Lebanon, where she taught several subjects. She then taught at Nathan Hale Ray School in Moodus, before continuing her career at Windham High School, where she was a beloved Home-Economics teacher from 1955 to 1977. During this time, she and her late husband owned and operated their Briggs Road dairy farm. Phyllis had many loves in her life: her family, traveling with "the girls", crossword puzzles, cooking, sewing, a good card game, and the Red Sox. She was a member of the Lebanon Firewomen's Auxiliary, the Lebanon Senior Citizens, and various teachers' organizations. She is survived by two daughters, Louise P. Rheaume and her husband Paul of Ashby, Mass., Mary Lou Beckwith and her husband Stuart of Lebanon; five grandchildren, Brian A. Beckwith and his wife Anna, Barbara E. Archer and her husband Bill, Bonnie B. McAneny and her husband Matt all of Lebanon, Arthur Jankowski and his wife Kris of Delaware, and Phyllis Jankowski of New Mexico; and twelve great-grandchildren, Victoria and April Beckwith, Jack and Drew Archer, Nick and Jake McAneny, Eric and Mark Jankowski, and Samantha, Hannah, Tyler, and Justin Gonzales. Phyllis will always be remembered for her giving spirit, and her devilish smile. Her family will receive friends at the Potter Funeral Home 456 Jackson St. (Rte. 195) Willimantic on Friday from 6:00 to 8:00pm. The funeral service will be held at the funeral home on Saturday at 10:00am with burial following in the New Lebanon Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Lebanon Volunteer Fire Department, Goshen Hill Rd. Lebanon, CT 06249. Please visit at www.potterfh.com for online memorial guestbook.

[With permission from Potter Funeral Home Transcribed & Submitted by Nancy Washell]


Clifford C. Ausburger 1931 - 2003

Clifford C. Ausburger, 71, of Mansfield, formerly of Lebanon, died Saturday January 11, 2003 in Mansfield. He was born March 13, 1931 in Lebanon, son of the late Jacob and Caroline (Krause) Ausburger. He grew up in Lebanon and was a constable while he lived there. Mr. Ausburger was employed for many years at Hamilton Standard and Terry Turbine Corp. in Windsor Locks. He was a former member of the Governor?s Horse Guard and for many years a coach for Somers Little League teams. He is survived by 4 children, Charles Ausburger of Storrs, Caroline Enes of Storrs, Sandra Kipp of Farmington and Kimberly MacDonald of Mystic, a brother, Otto Ausburger of Lebanon, a sister Lillian Morgan of Fairfax, VT, 8 grandchildren, Kimberly Obert, Amanda, Clarissa, Justin and Cinthia Enes, Morgan Ausburger, Chelsea and Jack MacDonald, several nieces and nephews. His family will receive friends at the Potter Funeral Home, 456 Jackson St. Willimantic on Monday from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. Funeral services will be at the funeral home on Tuesday at 11:00 a.m. with the Reverend Scott Schuett officiating. Burial will follow in the New Lebanon Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Redeemer Lutheran Church, 328 Village Hill Rd. Lebanon, CT 06249. Please visit www.potterfh.com for directions and online registry.

[With permission from Potter Funeral Home  Transcribed & Submitted by Nancy Washell]


Frederick A. Ausburger 1948 - 2005

Frederick A. Ausburger, 57, of Chaplin, beloved husband of Jacqueline (Garceau) Ausburger for 38 years, died peacefully, Tuesday September 6, 2005, surrounded by family after a courageous battle with pancreatic cancer at Windham Hospital. He was born July 4, 1948 in Lebanon, CT, son of the late Arthur and Thelma (Bean) Ausburger and had lived in the North Windham and Chaplin area all his life. Fred was employed at Seymour Sand and Gravel before retiring. He was known as an excellent carpenter and was an avid hunter and fisherman. He especially enjoyed his perennial gardens. He was a member of the Willimantic Moose Lodge #1400 for 36 years. Besides his wife he is survived by a daughter, Heidi Meketsy of Chaplin, a son, Eric Ausburger of North Windham, and his very loved grandson, Jacob Meketsy of Chaplin. He is also survived by three brothers and their wives, Henry and Deborah Ausburger of Scotland, Ronald and Heidi Ausburger of Chaplin, Alan Ausburger of West Virginia, three sisters and a brother-in-law, Carolyn and Theodore Weyand of New Orleans, Louisiana, June Broadbent of Virginia, and Jane Byrd of Willimantic, four sisters-in-law and three brothers-in-law, Annette Grover, Terry and Tom Flynn, Paul and Deborah Garceau, Jeanne and Conrad Labbe, a special nephew, Joshua Ausburger, several other nephews, nieces, cousins, aunts and uncles. His family will receive friends at the Potter Funeral Home, 456 Jackson St., Rte. 195, Willimantic on September 16, 2005 from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. Funeral services will be at the funeral home on September 17th at 12:00 noon. Burial will be at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Chaplin Fire Department, Chaplin, CT 06235. Please visit www.potterfh.com for directions and online memorial guestbook.

[With permission from Potter Funeral Home  Transcribed & Submitted by Nancy Washell]



Mildred B. Babcock 1914 - 2008
 
Mildred Bender Babcock, 93, formerly of Bender Rd., Lebanon, passed away Tuesday Jan. 1, 2008 at Douglas Manor, Windham. She was born May 13, 1914 in Willimantic the daughter of Carl and Mary (Lord) Johnson. Mildred had been employed by Bunnell Buick in Willimantic for several years prior to her retirement. She previously had been employed at Nathan Hale Hotel in Willimantic and Pleasant View Lodge in Chaplin. She is survived by a daughter Jeanne Vertefeuille and her husband Bert of Lebanon, a son Jack Bender and his wife Susan of Lebanon, nine grandchildren, sixteen great grandchildren, two great great grandchildren, daughter in law Margaret Babcock of NY., son in law Roger Racicot of Lebanon, brother in law Edward Bender and his wife Clara of Lebanon, sister in law Helen Bender of Lebanon and several nieces and nephews. There are no calling hours. A Memorial Mass will be celebrated on Friday at 2:00pm at St. Francis of Assisi Church, West Town St., Lebanon, with interment following in New Lebanon Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Lebanon Volunteer Fire Dept., P.O. Box 51, Lebanon, CT. 06249. Arrangements through Potter Funeral Home, Willimantic. For online memorial guestbook, please visit www.potterfuneralhome.com .
 
[With permission from Potter Funeral Home  Transcribed & Submitted by Nancy Washell]

Ronald N. Babcock 1945 - 2005
 
Ronald N. Babcock, 59, of Lebanon, died Wednesday June 1, 2005, surrounded by his children at Lawrence and Memorial Hospital in New London,. He was born September 9, 1945 in New Brunswick, Maine, the son of the late Nelson and Anita (Bouchard) Babcock and had lived in Lebanon most of his life. He was a graduate of Lyman Memorial High School in Lebanon and a U.S. Navy veteran of the Vietnam War. Following his stint in the Navy, Ronald joined the National Guard based at AVCRAD and his unit was activated for participation in Operation Desert Storm. He was an avid coin and stamp collector and also a music and history buff. He was predeceased by the mother of his children and the love of his life, Brenda Jean Birtles. He is survived by 5 children, Steven of Coventry, Stacie of South Windsor, Shannon of Hebron, Tabetha of Putnam and Eric of Lebanon, 10 grandchildren, Jason, Sarah, Derrick, Seth, Amanda, Elizabeth, Katelynn, Abigail, Emily and Elijah and a great granddaughter, Destinie. His family will receive friends at the Potter Funeral Home, 456 Jackson St., Rte. 195, Willimantic Friday from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. Funeral services will be private with burial in the New Lebanon Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the American Lung Association, 45 Ash St. East Hartford, CT 06108-3272. For directions or online memorial guestbook, please visit www.potterfh.com .
 
[With permission from Potter Funeral Home  Transcribed & Submitted by Nancy Washell]

Harry Barabash 1922 - 2002
 
Harry Barabash, 79, of Goshen Hill Rd., Lebanon, died Wednesday March 27, 2002 in Colchester. He was born April 14, 1922 in Hartford the son of Stephen and Frances (Yarish) Barabash. He was retired from Pratt & Whitney in E. Hartford. Harry enjoyed woodworking and had a strong compassion for stray animals. He is survived by his daughter and son in law Dianna and Gene Naumec of New Hartford, a son Steven Barabash of Brooksville, Fla., his loving companion of many years Cecile Nadeau of Lebanon, 2 sisters Josephine Marcinow of Scotland and Martha Pinavich of Vernon, 5 grandchildren and 4 great grandchildren. His family will receive friends at the Potter Funeral Home 456 Jackson St. (Rte. 195) Willimantic TODAY from 6:00 to 8:00pm. His funeral service will be held on Saturday at 10:00am at the funeral home, with burial following in the New Lebanon Cemetery. www.potterfh.com
 
[With permission from Potter Funeral Home  Transcribed & Submitted by Nancy Washell]

Frank Bartizek 1907 - 2002
 
Frank Bartizek, 94, of Lebanon, husband of Janice (Spellacy) Bartizek, died Thursday March 7, 2002 in Willimantic. He was born December 4, 1907 in Willimantic, the son of Joseph and Mary (Rybarz) Bartizek. He attended Lebanon schools and graduated from Lyman Memorial High School in 1925 and was the oldest graduate of that class still living in Lebanon. He was an avid sports fan throughout his life, playing basketball and baseball in high school and on the "Town Team" for several years after graduating. Mr. Bartizek retired from dairy farming in 1977. Always active in community affairs, Mr. Bartizek was elected to the Lebanon Board of Selectmen in 1938 and served for 19 years followed by 14 years as Chairman of the Board of Education. He was a member and past trustee of the First Baptist Church of Lebanon and a member of several agricultural and soil conservation organizations at both local and state levels. Mr. Bartizek was a charter and life member of the Lebanon Volunteer Fire Department, a charter member of the Lebanon Historical Society and was Republican Town Chairman for 35 years. In addition to his wife whom he married on April 7, 1947 he is survived by a son and daughter-in-law, Robert and Ann Bartizek, a grandson Brian Bartizek, all of Lebanon, Ohio, many nieces and nephews. In addition to his parents he was predeceased by a son, Joseph, 3 brothers, John, Louis and Albert and 2 sisters, Stella Swan and Rose Michalec. Funeral services will be Monday at 11:00 a.m. at the Potter Funeral Home, 456 Jackson St. (Rte. 195) Willimantic. Burial will follow in the New Lebanon Cemetery. His family will receive friends at the funeral home 1 hour prior to the service. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Foundation Fighting Blindness, P.O. Box 17279, Baltimore, MD 21297.
 
[With permission from Potter Funeral Home  Transcribed & Submitted by Nancy Washell]

Phyllis H. Bartizek 1917 - 2004
 
Phyllis (Hoxie) Bartizek of South Windham, widow of Albert Bartizek, passed away Sept. 7, 2004 at Windham Memorial Hospital, Willimantic. She was born March 4, 1917 in Norwich during a snowstorm. Her parents were Dorothy (Gould) Hoxie and Albert C. Hoxie of Lebanon. After graduating from Lyman Memorial High School, Phyllis worked at American Thermos in Norwich. During World War II she worked as an inspector at Pratt & Whitney Aircraft. She chose to accompany her husband as he attended officer training in the U.S. Army, then returned to Connecticut when he went overseas. She devoted herself to her family, baking, gardening around her property and an antiques business operated with her husband. She had played on her high school basketball team and became an avid fan of the UConn women's team. She greatly enjoyed being with her friends and was an enthusiastic supporter of the Lebanon Historical Society. Phyllis is survived by her two sons and their wives, Brian and Cora of South Windham and Ronald and Charlotte of Dallas, Pa.; three grandchildren, Mark, Kathryn and Carl; a sister, Justine Mencl of Palmyra, Maine; nieces and nephews, and a former daughter-in-law, Olga Bartizek of Willimantic. Calling hours will be Sunday from 2 to 4 p.m. at the Potter Funeral Home, 456 Jackson St. (Rte. 195) Willimantic. Services will be held Monday at 2 p.m. at the First Congregational Church of Lebanon, followed by burial in the New Lebanon Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, her family suggests memorial donations to the Lebanon Historical Society, P.O. Box 151, Lebanon, CT. 06249. Please visit at www.potterfh.com for online memorial guestbook and directions.
 
[With permission from Potter Funeral Home  Transcribed & Submitted by Nancy Washell]
John M. Bassett 1951 - 2006
 
John M. Bassett, 55, of Lebanon, husband of Laura (Bonor) Bassett, died Tuesday, June 20, 2006 in Windham after a long and courageous battle with Mesothelioma, a type of cancer. He was born May 9, 1951 in Hyannis, MA, the son of the late Miller and Georgianna (Edwards) Bassett and had lived in Canterbury and Southington before moving to Lebanon 4 years ago. He was a graduate of Coventry High School, Manchester Community College, Hartford State Technical School and was employed at Rogers Corporation in Manchester before joining the Navy in 1971. He served aboard the USS Richmond K. Turner (DLG-20) as an operations specialist radar man from 1971 to 1975. He was employed at Corometrics Medical Systems in Wallingford from 1978 to 2001 and at Electric Boat in Groton from 2001 to the present. John loved nature, hiking, exploring and spending time at his family’s Camp Bowman in New Hampshire. He enjoyed golf, antiques and working with his hands. He was a perfectionist at his woodworking. In addition to his wife he is survived by Laura’s sons, Ryan, Justin and Joshua Messier of Lebanon and Columbia, his siblings; Janet Niemi of Brockton, MA, Pamela Burgess and her husband Charlie of Lisbon, Rachel Mackay of Richmond, VA, Thomas Bassett and his wife Tina of Canterbury, Timothy Bassett and his wife Susan of Windham, Sarah Glennon and her husband James of Canterbury, his stepmother; Lorraine Bassett, a granddaughter Emily, several nieces and nephews. His family will receive friends at the Potter Funeral Home, 456 Jackson St., Rte. 195, Willimantic on Thursday from 4:00 to 7:00 p.m. Funeral services will be Friday at 12:30 p.m. at the Columbia Congregational Church, Rte. 87, Columbia. Burial with military honors will follow in the New Lebanon Cemetery, Waterman Rd., Lebanon. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the International Mesothelioma Program, 75 Francis Street, Boston, MA 02115 or Hospice of Eastern CT, 34 Ledgebrook Dr., Mansfield Center, CT 06250. Please visit www.potterfh.com for directions and online memorial guestbook.
[With permission from Potter Funeral Home  Transcribed & Submitted by Nancy Washell]

Linda J. Bates 1958 - 2002
 
Linda J. Bates, 43, of Lebanon, wife of Richard "Dick" Bates Jr. died Monday March 18, 2002 at the W.W. Backus Hospital in Norwich. She was born June 13, 1958 in Putnam, the daughter of Henry Warren of Dayville, and the late Olive (Burgon) Warren and had lived in Lebanon for the past 22 years. She grew up in Pawcatuck and attended West Vine St. School in Stonington and Windham High School. She loved to play Bingo, ride motorcycles and travel, especially along the coast of Maine. In addition to her husband and father she is survived by a son, Jonnie Warren of Plainville, 3 brothers, Walter Burgon of Nebraska, Richard and William Warren, both of Danielson, 2 sisters, Cindy Harrington of Woodstock and Donna Bourque of Moosup, her stepmother, Pauline Warren of Dayville, three dear friends, Mary, Kay and Terry, many nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her son, B.J. Snelling. A graveside service will be held Thursday at 11:00 a.m. in the New Lebanon Cemetery, Waterman Rd. Lebanon. There are no calling hours. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the American Lung Association, 45 Ash St., East Hartford, CT 06108. The Potter Funeral home, 456 Jackson St. Willimantic is in charge of arrangements. www.potterfh.com
 
[With permission from Potter Funeral Home  Transcribed & Submitted by Nancy Washell]
Arthur Bender 1918 - 2003
 
Arthur Bender, 84, a lifelong resident of Lebanon, went to his eternal home on Friday May 23, 2003 at St. Joseph Living Center, Windham. He was born July 6, 1918 the son of Johann and Justina (Schachinger) Bender. He was a life member and past president of the Redeemer Lutheran Church. One of his greatest pleasures was grooming the lawn of the church and his property next door. With the help of a former local radio station, Arthur was instrumental in introducing the annual German Christmas and Easter services held at the church. During the course of his life, he worked as a farmer in Lebanon and also worked at Pratt & Whitney, CL&P and Hamilton Standard. In 1959 he joined his brother Arnold at Bender's Oil Co. In 1970 he became the sole owner and was later joined by his 3 sons who took over the business at his retirement. Arthur was a charter member of the Lebanon Volunteer Fire Dept. and was a Past President and member of the Lebanon Lions Club for over 40 years. He had served on the Lebanon Board of Tax Review and on the building committees for the first addition to the Lebanon Elementary School and for the Town Hall. For many years, he was a dedicated blood donor. Arthur enjoyed camping and traveling with his wife Helen, covering all but 2 states of the U.S.A., plus extensive travel in Europe. He was a charter member of the German American Social Club of Willimantic and was a member of the Gasthaus Dancers, a group of costumed German shoe-slapping dancers who performed at nursing homes and various clubs throughout New England. He is survived by his wife Helen (Laibrandt) Bender. On May 30th they would have celebrated their 57th anniversary. He is also survived by 4 sons ; Ronald and his wife Deborah, Charles, James and Kurt and his wife Mary Beth, 5 grandchildren; Joanna, Daniel, Maria, Scott and Joseph, a brother Edward and his wife Clara and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his brothers Walter and Arnold and a sister Helen Card Rogers. His family will receive friends at the Potter Funeral Home 456 Jackson St. (Rte. 195) Willimantic on Monday from 5:00 to 8:00pm. His funeral service will be held on Tuesday at 11:00am at the Redeemer Lutheran Church, corner of Village Hill Rd. and Rte 289 Lebanon, with the Rev. Scott Schuett officiating. Burial will follow in the New Lebanon Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, his family suggests memorial donations to the Building Fund of the Redeemer Lutheran Church, 361 Beaumont Highway, Lebanon, Ct. 06249 or to the Helen Rogers Scholarship Fund at Lyman Memorial High School, c/o Linda Heatherly, 917 Exeter Rd., Lebanon, Ct. 06249. Please visit at www.potterfh.com for directions and online expressions of sympathy.
 
[With permission from Potter Funeral Home  Transcribed & Submitted by Nancy Washell]

Edward M. Bender 1926 - 2008
 
Edward M. Bender, 82, of Lebanon, husband of Klara (Jung) Bender, died Wednesday Nov. 26, 2008 in Winter Haven, Florida. He was born Sept. 21, 1926 in Lebanon the son of Johann and Justina Bender and operated Bender’s Farm for many years. He was a member of Connecticut Milk Producers Assoc., Eastern Milk Production Assoc., Lebanon Historical Society and Germans from Russia. Mr. Bender had served Lebanon as a selectman, school bus driver, member of the Board of Education, Justice of Peace and as a constable. He also taught Sunday School at Redeemer Lutheran Church in Lebanon. Ed enjoyed sports, especially basketball and baseball. In addition to his wife, he is survived by three sons, Karl of Middletown, Eric of Lebanon and Edward Jr. of Lebanon, a daughter Nancy Kersh of Washington D.C., seven grandchildren, a great grandson and several nieces and nephews. His family will receive friends at Potter Funeral Home 456 Jackson St. (Rte. 195) Willimantic on Sunday between 2:00 and 4:00pm. His funeral service will be held at the funeral home on Monday at 10:30 with Rev. Jack Schneider officiating. Interment will follow in New Lebanon Cemetery. Memorial donations are suggested to Baptist Fellowship, Rte 6, Columbia, Ct. 06237. For online memorial guestbook, please visit www.potterfuneralhome.com.
 
[With permission from Potter Funeral Home  Transcribed & Submitted by Nancy Washell]

Lillian K. Bender 1908 - 2005
 
Lillian (Krause) Bender, 96, of Lebanon, wife of the late Arnold Bender, died Friday Aug. 5, 2005,at home surrounded by her family. She was born Aug. 19, 1908 in Poughkeepsie, N.Y. the daughter of Frederick and Elizabeth (Jung) Krause and resided in Lebanon for most of her life. Lily and her late husband Arnold established Bender’ s Oil Service and Gas Station in Lebanon. She had been previously employed at the American Thread Co. and the Electro-Motive Manufacturing Co. Lily was a lifelong member of the Redeemer Lutheran Church in Lebanon and had been president of the Ladies Guild and also taught Sunday School. She was a 4-H Leader, charter member of the Ladies Auxiliary of the Lebanon Volunteer Fire Dept., former president of the 60+ Bus Service, member of the Windham Hospital Auxiliary, served on the board of the McSweeney Senior Center and was a member of the Lebanon Seniors. Lily was an avid card player with the Lebanon Junior Seniors Setback Group and was well known in Lebanon as an avid Yankees fan. She was predeceased by her daughter and son in law, Elizabeth (Bender) Howard and Robert Howard of Orange Park, FL. She is survived by 4 daughters, Dorothy (Bender) Stevens of Lebanon, Barbara (Bender) Manning and her husband Charles of Mohawk, N.Y., Marion (Bender) Russo and her husband Roland of Lebanon and Linda (Bender) Russo and her husband Robert of Lebanon; 2 brothers, Arnold Krause and Harold Krause of Lebanon, 18 grandchildren and 26 great grandchildren. Her family will receive friends at the Potter Funeral Home 456 Jackson St. (Rte. 195) Willimantic on Monday between 5:00 and 8:00pm. Her funeral service will be held at the Redeemer Lutheran Church, Village Hill Rd., Lebanon on Tuesday at 2:00pm with the Rev. Scott Schuett officiating. Burial will follow in the New Lebanon Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations are suggested to the Arnold Bender Memorial Fund c/o Linda Russo, 276 Beaumont Highway, Lebanon, CT. 06249. For online memorials please visit at www.potterfh.com.
Wally was a very caring, generous, considerate and loving person, always willing to lend a helping hand. He entertained his friends with his great sense of humor, which he maintained to the end. He is survived by his brothers Russell and Douglas, their wives Jonica and Beverly, several nieces and nephews and many great nieces and nephews. Calling hours will not be held. Rev. Fred Wright will officiate at the funeral which will be held at the Goshen Congregational Church, Lebanon on Wednesday at 2:00pm. He will be interred in his hometown of Lebanon in the New Lebanon Cemetery beside his first wife Eleanor. Contributions in lieu of flowers may be made in Wally’s name to the American Cancer Society 106 Rte. 32, Franklin Commons, Franklin, CT.06254. Please visit www.potterfh.com for directions and online memorial guestbook.
[With permission from Potter Funeral Home  Transcribed & Submitted by Nancy Washell]

Wallace P. Blakeslee 1927 - 2006

Wallace P. Blakeslee Jr. of Bakersfield, CA. formerly of Lebanon, CT., went to be with the Lord on November 1, 2006 after a battle with cancer.
Wally was the oldest of four children born on Feb. 22, 1927 to Wallace P. Blakeslee Sr. and Delia Gray Blakeslee. He grew up on a farm in Lebanon CT and often reminisced about the days when he arose early to milk cows and deliver newspapers before going to school. His high school graduation class was the smallest in the entire history of Lyman Memorial High School with eleven students.
Wally joined the U.S. Air Force right out of high school in 1944. During his tour of duty he was in Germany as part of the Berlin Airlift. He began his career in the cotton industry working for the American Thread Co. in Willimantic CT where he soon became supervisor of his department. Later on, he was involved in buying and selling cotton and warehouse management. This resulted in his being transferred to New York City, Fresno and a final move to Bakersfield in 1969. Wally enjoyed playing golf for a number of years with his great golfing buddies. He received his pilot’s license, bought his own airplane and made several cross country trips. He flew many times with Erroll Williams.
Wally was married to Eleanor Harvey for 48 years. They had no children. Eleanor passed away in 1999. Wally met his second wife, Audrey Rowe, at First Presbyterian Church in Bakersfield CA, they were married in 2001 and had a wonderful five years together.
Wally received the Mason of the year award from Muedell-Oildale Masonic Lodge #695 in 2004 for his contribution to the Child I.D. Program. He was also a member of Scottish Rite and the Kern County Shrine Club.
Wally was a very caring, generous, considerate and loving person, always willing to lend a helping hand. He entertained his friends with his great sense of humor, which he maintained to the end. He is survived by his brothers Russell and Douglas, their wives Jonica and Beverly, several nieces and nephews and many great nieces and nephews. Calling hours will not be held. Rev. Fred Wright will officiate at the funeral which will be held at the Goshen Congregational Church, Lebanon on Wednesday at 2:00pm. He will be interred in his hometown of Lebanon in the New Lebanon Cemetery beside his first wife Eleanor. Contributions in lieu of flowers may be made in Wally’s name to the American Cancer Society 106 Rte. 32, Franklin Commons, Franklin, CT.06254. Please visit www.potterfh.com for directions and online memorial guestbook.

[With permission from Potter Funeral Home  Transcribed & Submitted by Nancy Washell]


Ruth L. Blay 1921 - 2005
 
Ruth L. Blay, 84, of Scotland, wife of Clayton Blay, died Saturday April 23, 2005 at their home. She was born April 16, 1921 in Waterbury, the daughter of Paul and Lillian (Adkins) Garthwait and had lived in Lebanon and Vermont for many years before moving to Scotland. She was employed at the former Electro-Motive Mfg. Co. in Willimantic and most recently at Ridges Outlet, also in Willimantic. She enjoyed various crafts, gardening and sewing. In addition to her husband she is survived by 4 sons and daughters-in-law, John and Dawn Drum of Lebanon, Francis and Susan Drum of Colchester, Ron and Barbara Drum of Lebanon, Richard and Barbara Drum of Scotland, a brother, William Garthwait of Windsor, a sister, Lillian Kablik of Lebanon, a sister-in-law, Velma Garthwait of Lebanon, 11 grandchildren, 3 great grandchildren, several nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by a son, Russell Drum and 2 brothers, Donald and Kenneth Garthwait. Her family will receive friends at the Potter Funeral Home, 456 Jackson St., Rte. 195, Willimantic on Wednesday from 6 :00 to 8:00 p.m. Funeral services will be at the funeral home Thursday at 11:00 a.m. Burial will follow in the New Lebanon Cemetery, Lebanon. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the First Baptist Church of Lebanon, Lebanon, CT 06249 or to a charity of the donor’ s choice. Please visit www.potterfh.com for directions or online memorial guestbook.

BRAMAN, Robert V. died on Friday May 16, 2008. He was the son of Rollo Warren and Flora Mae (Barney) Braman born on November 8, 1915 in Torrington. He attained Eagle Scout with Bronze Palm in 1932 and graduated from Farmington High School in 1934. He attended the Citadel in Charleston, SC, participating in football and track. He joined the United States Marine Corps, becoming a drill instructor before serving in the South Pacific during World War II. He owned and operated the Armored Car Company and worked for Connecticut Natural Gas Company in Hartford as an energy consultant retiring from that position at age 67. He is survived by his wife, Frances King Braman, and eight children from two previous marriages; Barbara Kelly, Douglas Braman, Lois Albert, Richard Braman, David Braman and Janice Smith from his first marriage to Arlene Miner Braman, and also Liliane Boyd and Lisa Braman from his second marriage to Liliane Taillon Braman. He leaves 13 grandchildren and six great grandchildren. He was stepfather to five children of his wife, Frances; Lawrence Sawyer, Joanne Hutchinson, Richard Holmes, Frederick Sawyer and Peter Sawyer and numerous generations of grandchildren. After serving more than 50 years in the First Company Governor's Foot Guard, he left as Executive Officer, retiring with the rank of Major and life member; he participated and instructed for the rifle and pistol teams. He was also a member of the Ale & Garden Society affiliated with the Governor's Foot Guard. He competed for 20 years with New England police teams and was a Connecticut Hunter Safety Instructor for the State of Connecticut. Mr. Braman was a Master Mason attaining 32nd Degree; a Sojourner, and a life member of the Veterans of Foreign War, American Legion and Hunters of North America. In addition, he was a member of the Sons of the American Revolution. He enjoyed traveling and seeing much of the United States, including over 1,000 miles of canoeing, a favorite sport. A memorial service will be held on Saturday, May 24, at 1 p.m. at the Gilead Congregational Church, 672 Gilead Street, Hebron. Burial will be at the convenience of the family. Memorial donations may be made to The First Company Governor's Foot Guard, P. O. Box 1771, Hartford, CT 06144 to the General Fund.

[Published in the Hartford Courant on 5/21/2008. - Transcribed by Nancy Washell]


Dorothy M. Brown
June 30, 1906 - October 23, 1999

Dorothy Marguerite Brown, 93, of Hayward Avenue, Colchester, died peacefully at home with her family by her side on Saturday (October 23, 1999). She was born on June 30, 1906 in Boston, MA, a daughter of the late Robert Paine and Ada Gertrude (Atwood) Palmer. She was raised and educated in Massachusetts, graduating from Upton High School, as well as the Framingham Normal School, where she graduated in 1927 with a degree in teaching. In 1932, she married Harold Frederick Brown (who served asFire Chief for 30 years with the Colchester Hayward Volunteer Fire Department). Mr. Brown died in August of 1970. Mrs. Brown's distinguished 44-year teaching career began in Lebanon at the Abell School, a one-room schoolhouse for grades one through eight. She returned to Boston and taught there for two years, while caring for her ailing mother. Upon returning to Connecticut, Mrs. Brown settled into a teaching position in the Colchester Public school system that would take her to retirement, after 38 years of service. Mrs. Brown also served as a past president of the Teachers Union for the Colchester Schools and in 1998, received the distinguished Kappa Delta Gamma International Society Award for service in excess of 25 years. Mrs. Brown was a member of the Colchester Federated Church, where she was also a past Deaconess. Her survivors include two children, Frederick P. Brown and his wife, Patricia of Colchester, Janice Adams of Colchester; a brother, Robert Palmer and his wife, Jean of Colon,MI; 10 grandchildren and 18 great-grandchildren. In addition to her husband and parents, she was predeceased by a sister, Hazel Norris; a brother, Edger Palmer; and a grandson, Jeff Brown. Funeral services will be held on Thursday, October 28, 2 p.m.,at the Colchester Federated Church. Burial will follow in Exeter Cemetery in Lebanon. Calling hours will be held on Wednesday, October 27, 2:30-4 and 7-8:30 p.m., at the Aurora-McCarthy Funeral Home, 167 Old Hartford Road, Colchester. The family requests that donations in her memory be made to the Dorothy Palmer Brown Teachers Scholarship Fund, c/o Treasurer, Bacon Academy Alumni Scholarship Fund, 120 Crestview Drive, Colchester 06415, or the Colchester Hayward Volunteer Fire Department, Old HartfordRoad, Colchester 06415. 
 [The Hartford Courant, Oct 25, 1999, pB4 - Transcribed & Submitted by Nancy Washell]


Joan M. Crecco
Nov 23, 1947 - Dec 22, 2004

Of Lebanon, formerly of East Hartford, beloved wife of Steven, passed away Wednesday afternoon (Dec. 22, 2004) at home, surrounded by her loving family after a long, courageous battle with cancer. She was born in Lewiston, ME, a daughter of the late Arthur and Collette (Grant) Borey. She grew up in Dorchester, MA and moved to CT in 1974. Joan was a longtime employee of Liturgical Publications, Inc. of Cromwell, and taught typing in the South Windsor Adult Education Program. In 1988, she earned an Associate's Degree in Communications from Manchester Community College, and she later worked toward her Bachelor's Degree at Central Connecticut State University. In addition to her first priority, her family, Joan was involved in several community organizations, such as the Girl Scouts, in which she served as a troop leader. She volunteered for several years as a cameraperson for the East Hartford Cable Access Channel, and also took part in the annual East Hartford Lions Club Flower Sale for many years. She is survived by the love of her life, and her best friend, Steven A. Crecco, to whom she was married for 34 years, two loving children, Diana Crecco of Newington and David Crecco of East Hartford; her two beloved grandchildren, Anthony and David Crecco and their mother Dashiris Serrano of Manchester; a sister Elaine Gibbons of Marshfield, MA; a brother A. James Borey of Ayer, MA; her niece Christine Mortell of Arlington, MA; her niece and nephew, Lauren Lantagne and Mark Lovallo and their mother Diane Lovallo of Salem, NH; her brother-in-law Victor Crecco and his wife Christine of Stonington and their family. The family wishes to extend its deepest appreciation to Dr. Dominic Pasquale and the staff of the Cancer Center of St. Francis Hospital for Joan's care and treatment over the past 13 years, as well as Kathy Killarney, RN, of VNA East for her compassionate care as Joan's Hospice nurse. The family would also like to thank Joan's many friends, especially Donna Willard, and the folks from the "Mirth" Group, for always being there for Joan. Friends may call Monday (Dec. 27th) from 5 to 8 PM at the Aurora-McCarthy Funeral Home, 167 Old Hartford Rd., COLCHESTER, CT. The Funeral will assemble 9 AM Tuesday morning at the Funeral Home before the celebration of the Funeral Liturgy at 10 AM Tuesday at St. Francis of Assisi Church, West Town St., Lebanon, with Fr. Brian J. Converse officiating. Burial will follow in the Exeter Cemetery, Lebanon. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to VNA East, 34 Ledgebrook Road, Mansfield Center, CT 06250.

[The Boston Globe, Dec 25, 2004,  - Transcribed & Submitted by Nancy Washell]

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